Supporting a child or teen who self-harms, will be one of the most stressful and difficult times of your life. But you have to be careful about showing your child how upset and worried you are. You see, there will be many times when they’ll trigger a strong knee-jerk reaction from you, but it’s often advisable to hide this. Your unrestrained reaction can be unhelpful, as it reveals all the strong anxieties and worries you have inside. What they actually need to see in you is a strong, stable, loving parent, that they can rely on during this tumultuous time in their life. Even if it’s just a front!
So in our experience, knowing what NOT TO SAY at times you feel triggered and upset is really important to work out in advance.
Here are 5 things NOT to say to your self-harming child:
#1 Please don’t do it again today
This statement can come from a place of love and wanting to protect your child. That’s totally understandable. But pressuring...